We Wish You the Best in Sex and Love!

Three days ago, Maxim Radio announced it will be no more, and Sirius channel 108 will become a brand new station as of Monday. Unfortunately, our show went down with the ship.

So we just want to say thank you to all of you loyal and part-time listeners for an amazing time! The end of Sex Files on Sirius radio marks exactly two years—to the week—that the show began. And it was YOU that made the show so much fun for us, as we aimed every week to give you men the best information and advice we could from our female point of view. Did it work? We hope so!

Here's the good news: Amy and Anna will continue to work on fabulous other projects.

Amy Spencer will continue to dole out relationship and love advice. In fact, Amy is currently writing a dating book for singles due out from Running Press in Spring 2010. So mark your calendars...if they go that far ahead! And she will continue to write about relationships, lifestyle and much more in magazines like Glamour, Page Six Magazine, Health, Redbook and more. Keep up with Amy at www.amy-spencer.com.







Anna David still brilliantly answers sex and love questions every week on G4's Attack of the Show and has two books coming out.


Anna's second novel, Bought from Harper Collins, is coming out in May 2009, and she is editing an anthology on reality shows for Harper Collins, due out in the Fall of 09. Keep up to date on Anna at www.annadavid.com.

So don't be a stranger. Check in with us every once in a while! And as for your own love and sex lives, we say this:

Keep communicating, keep showing affection, keep talking about your feelings (yes, even you tough guys) and as Amy always says, keep telling her she’s beautiful and she'll only become more so.

Thanks again for rolling (in the hay) with us. It truly has been real.

xoxo
Amy & Anna

Myth Dispelling

There are certain things you guys believe to be true about women. Some of these are accurate -- yes, we do tend to be cleaner and chattier than you -- but some simply aren't. They're myths.

Myth #1: Girls masturbate rarely -- if ever;
Myth #2: Girls don't like porn and only watch it with you because they're being nice;
Myth #3: Girls can go without sex for long periods of time and not care.

In studio to help dispel these myths and more will be Amelia McDonnell-Parry, the Editor-in-Chief of the relatively new site thefrisky.com, a "daily romp on the sexy side" that covers such topics as Sarah Palin erotica and how not to be a bad ex.

Amelia has worked at Maxim and Rolling Stone and though she publicly claims to be "a little prudish," we're not afraid to find out if that's another myth we need to dispel.

Also chiming in will be returning guest Twanna Hines, she of the Funky Brown Chick nom de plume and sex and dating articles for many places, including Nerve -- as well as her own fantabulous blog.

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesdays at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.

Did somebody say cougar?

Oh, that's right. It was you guys. Those of you who've discovered the satisfying world of sex with an older woman. Well, this week on Sex Files, we're going to dive down into that world from the female point of view—we're going to give you advice on how to get some from the cougars themselves.

Our first guest is Ilona Paris, licensed mental health counselor, who specializes in working with people who are into alternative lifestyles in their sexuality.

Ilona is the author of the brand spanking new book, Hot Cougar Sex: Steamy Encounters with Younger Men, out this week.

And she wants to tell you all about it.






Also joining us in-studio is the fabulous Debbie Nigro, self-described cougar, and founder of First Wives World.


Here, Debbie keeps her own blog, In Case You Care What's On My Mind.

So tune in and ask all the questions you want to know about cougars—how to meet one, how to woo one, how to keep her happy, and more—from the experts who know!

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesdays at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.

Did Somebody Say Menage?

Maybe it's on your "To Do" list. Maybe you've already done it. Maybe you know you never will.

Whichever the case, the threesome remains one of the most discussed, fantasized-about scenarios known to sex. But how do you actually go about initiating one? And is it something you may later regret? Or perhaps a situation you'd like to repeat?

To answer these questions -- as well as any others that arise -- we'll have Lainie Spesier, the author of Threesomes: For Couples Who Want to Know More and Lola Gee, who throws Penthouse swingers parties, in the studio this Wednesday.

Please join us for this three-way (us, the experts, and you) conversation.

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesdays at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.

Listen to Last Week's Show!

For those of you who missed last week's show with dating bloggers Twanna, known as "The Funky Brown Chick" and Judy McGrath, this is your chance to catch up and find out this one important-yet-frightening fact: What are women kissing and telling about you when you're not around?


If you've already heard it, you may just learn more from another listen. Either way, follow this link to Twanna's blog to hear the audio of the show: Sex Files Audio 10/15/08: What Women Are Saying About You When You're Not Around

Thanks for posting this Twanna!

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesdays at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.

The Man's Manual

Yes, there is now a guidebook for how to be, well, you. And we must say, some of the tips in it are genius.

The book is called just that, The Man's Manual, and we highly recommend it for a fun read and some clever ideas on how to get everything you want and need.

Tune in this week as the author Gregg Stebben joins us in the studio to give you some funny but straight-talking tips on how to do all sorts of important things when it comes to sex and relationships.

Like:

* How to become a sex object
* How to avoid marriage
* How to choose the perfect gift
* How to lie
* How to breakup with someone (to whom you've probably lied)
* And, as it says on the cover, much, much more...





Also joining us will be another expert on the guy kind of life, Ron Geraci. Ron is a returning guest, the author of very funny memoir about making it work with women, The Bachelor Chronicles.


We're pretty confident Gregg and Ron will improve your life this week, with the insight you can only get when, you know, you're the ones writing the manuals yourself.

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesdays at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.

Practice Your Vote: Rate Us!

Turns out there's a web site devoted to rating radio shows, so we're curious to hear what you think!


Go to this link on the Radio Ratingz web site, give us a rating from low-1 to high-5 (like there's any question what we're hoping you'll say) and add a quick comment: Rate the Sex Files!

The good news? You don't have to sign into the site or create a username—none of that malarky. Honestly, it takes about 30 seconds in total. Not even a full work-procrastination minute.


The better news? Whether your vote is great or average, we'll be totally, truly grateful to have you speak your mind. And, well, you know how generous we women get when we're grateful...

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesdays at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.